BENJGARDNER

I desire to be with someone who is kind hearted and likes emotional and physical intimacy. Emotional maturity and generosity of spirit is very important for me. A woman who is emotionally available, can connect, and is willing to "invest" in a relationship. I am very giving by nature but have learned to conserve my energies for those who appreciate them. I have an exciting career that I enjoy and if you are looking for a man that is retired or semi-retired, that isn't me. I have a good life balance and create time and opportunity to play with as much passion and energy that I put into my work. I also enjoy giving back to the community that I live and work in.

i enjoy gardening so much for it gives me much smile.
i'm not scared to be dirty just to make things work fine and well.
good cook!
i like beach side and like country music when less busy.