ALBERTDEH

How does one distill themself into a tiny little box on a dating site? I've been staring at this blank canvas debating about how I'm going to extract the essence of me and squeeze it into this artificial construct. Admittingly its a challenge because I'm slightly uncomfortable talking about myself. It's a necessary evil I suppose and here's my shot at it.

I recently moved to Tennessee from Southern California. It's been quite a culture shock and I don't think I quite fit in here. I also really miss a decent taco.

Most people in my life would say that I'm the kindest person. Many have remarked throughout the years that I have a contagious laugh and witty and/or wry sense of humor and that I always seem to be smiling (unless I'm taking a "serious selfie", lol! I care about people, the environment, social justice, the rights of women and equality. I have two daughters so that pretty much makes me a feminist by default.


I love art and music. These keep me sane. I read and write poetry and have actually published a collection of original works. I'm a professional and have a demanding career. I have lived a full life so far and am always in search of my next adventure. I think about the big picture. I try to notice the small details in life.

I have a dog. Actually the dog belongs to my daughter so it's mine by default. I'm a deep thinker. I love philosophy, literature and history. I'm pretty handy with fixing things around the house or on cars. I'm cool under pressure. I can handle myself in a fight. I don't want you to get the wrong impression, I don't go around fighting people but I protect my own. Those who say they are a "lover not a fighter" are neither in my opinion.

I drink socially.. I like Scotch and beer. I will also have a bit of wine. I make a mean sage infused blackberry whisky c**ktail.

I love the outdoors. I like camping. I like seeing nature. I enjoy solitude.

I make French press coffee everyday. I like the creamy texture and strength of the steeping process.

I was in the Army. I am educated. I have a degree in Classics and Letters. I was once fluent in Spanish and German but I find languages are perishable skills. I took five semesters of Latin in college.

I don't have agendas.

I have no time for grudges.

I am a very respectful person.

I consider myself an extrovert but I'm also very inwardly focused. I'm always seeking improvement: