I am most comfortable in jeans and when I am home, subtle perfume. I have no tattoos or body piercings. No judgment on those who do, it's just not for me. Good hygiene is important to me and I would expect that in a mate as well. I'm not a neat freak, but I like a fairly clean house (kitchen & bathroom especially) I pay my bills on time, have a pretty good nest egg set aside for retirement and am a bargain hunter. I don't gamble, have never smoked, rarely drink other than wine and occasionally a mixed drink in a social setting, I don't take drugs other than an aspirin occasionally. I'm more frugal now than I used to be, and as I get older I have discovered relationships and experiences have more value to me than things.