I enjoy lots of music but my go - to" genres are R&B, soul, blues and jazz, gospel, and odds and ends of eclectic music. My favorite place in the world is Hawai" and visit close friends there nearly every year, I'm an avid reader of all sorts of books but confess that murder mysteries and detective novels are my guilty pleasures, One of my greatest joys is having my kids around me and enjoying being around my love one's and friends