Mature single woman. Not done this before so a little ambivalent. Looking for someone to share days/eves, outings etc. Perhaps friendship will lead to more ,,,,,,,,,,,, What type of man am I looking to spend time with? That's hard to say until I meet him. Someone who is young'ish at heart, interested, educated, reasonably fit, independent, doesn't want to be 'looked after' or has old fashioned ideas, not a gym or health fitness freak! Not a sports freak. Enjoys the usual kinds of things as well as some difference, who cooks or likes food, interested in foreign language/culture and still somewhat adventurous. Not an intellectual but intelligent. I guess the above pretty much describes me as well you. Genuine, loyal and tall'ish please.