Develop communication and commitment to the concept of relationship these are the things we should genuinely offer each other. Balance would be the first word that comes to the person i am trying to findmind strong enough to be passionate in their opinions humble enough to consider the thoughts and desires of their partners ...loyal and trustworthy but in touch with their inner s**ttiness ...someone who can comfortably be themselves and show their partner who they are and accept their partner not without challenge but with openness and honesty