my preference would always be to have one special person to build something with. Someone to look forward to seeing and spending time with, getting to know them and seeing where it goes. I very much enjoy the small things like cuddling up together, talking, leaving notes, letting someone know you're thinking about them. The cerebral part of getting to know someone is just as fun and important as the s*x. They go hand-in-hand, in my opinion. I'd like someone who loves to cuddle. Who's not in a hurry. Who loves kissing. Who wants to be there with me. Who wants to chat and tell me what's on their mind.